Why did Ian become The Confidant?

My mission in life is to gain Insight.

That is why I became The Confidant.

I want you to gain Insight because that leads you to take conscious actions and be success.

I Live In Love, In Power, and In Freedom.

And so can You.

I have witnessed from my early military career and dealing with a lot of professional and alternative disciplines, that Insight from the client was usually absent.

SO! What is missing?

The Answer is simple! Insight… It is beneficial when your coach, therapist or mentor understands what is going on and what is necessary for the needed results, but if you don’t get it! What then? You need the Insight! Even on a creative subconscious level. The key is Insight and Action.

That is why I am The Confidant! Let me be your Confidant too! With my skills, knowledge and life experiences, I invite you to join me on this journey together. Let’s gain Insight and take conscious Action!

What makes Ian the Ultimate Confidant?

Ian started his military career as an officer in 32 Battalion. He then joined the South-African Special Forces as an Operator (Recce) in 1993. After a serious accident, he left the South-African Special Forces and gave lectures in Battle Handling and Planning to Senior Officers in the South-African Medical Health Service.

Ian retired from the military as a Lieutenant Colonel to finish his studies in Neuro-linguistic programming and became a Master Practitioner. He also started practicing  ‘Clean Language‘ and Specialized Kinesiology (touch for health). Ian is also trained in Temple arts (ISTA). He loves and practices the above on a daily basis. He compliments his work with massages. Ian is an able massage practitioner and also developed Kamya massage.

Ian presents Combat workshops with Edged Weapons and Firearms for personal growth and self-defense.

Ian also does one-on-one Sensual Massage Workshops and more for women.

Currently, Ian integrated all of his knowledge and skills to be the Ultimate Confidant for You.

The Confidant will hold space and share with you in confidentiality. He will share his operational experience and mentality with you. By making use of high-level planning skills and problem-solving of note.

Ian will be there for You! In tough times and celebrating victories. Sharing and always growing.

Passions that The Confidant practices, share and live:

Temple Arts
Clean Language
Weapon and Edge Weapon Arts


1. The art of connecting with people and things.
2. Ian does talks and specialized corporate workshops.
3. Creating a lasting relationship by creating a field.
4. Making your goals a reality with the use of ritual ‘Daka Style’
5. Sensual Massage course for women.
6. Goal setting through proper planning and preparation ‘Military Style’
7. Introduction to edge weapons.
8. Weapon application personalized course.
9. S.W.A.T Sales course. (See Blog)

Book a Gathering:

Come share in my space: Centurion or Rivonia  500,00
Let’s share in your space 750,00
Coffee shop exchange 750,00
Whatsapp exchange 500,00
Distant exchange 500,00


S.W.A.T. Sales Program

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